ALL THE TIME... in the event that I either meet up with them or meet up with family friends...My Aunt... well, she is a nutbag... but she has a good heart... when her H and her split, he was the evil one who took up with a mistress, etc, etc, etc... the family, especially aunt and her daughter, spoke horribly about him for years and years... in the end, he made a poor choice (mistress) but whether