A non-limiting example of a fabric softening active comprising Formula (XV) is the reaction products of fatty acids with diethylenetriamine in a molecular ratio of about 2:1, said reaction product mixture comprising N,N-dialkyldiethylenetriamine having the Formula (XX): R1-C(0)-NH-CH2CH2-NH-CH2CH2-NH-C(0)-R1 Formula (XX) wherein R1 is an alkyl group of a commercially available fatty acid derived