hollieOctober 15th, 2008, 02:09 PMwe did our 'becoming an adult' when our youngest was born 9 weeks early it took us a few years but we realised that after that nothing but health and happiness matters everything else is a bonus thats when we decided being in dept and worrying about money wasn't worth it so we changed everything. my kids do not have everything they want all the time but they are be