Through all this he had many excuses as to why he wont marry me. 1st excuse: need time because of my first marriage- well guess what going on 6 years is good time for me. 2end excuse: My parents don???t except him- Guess what they do and have for 3 years, they even apologized a thousand times and treat him with the outermost respect and admitted they were very wrong- still not good enough for him.