I would normally rule a guy out for distance, unless there was a reason he was in my area a lot to begin with, or I in his, to make meeting up at first easier and more casual.posted by never.was.and.never.will.be. at 6:27 AM on February 5, 2012 I am in your target demographic, and I am sorry, but I would not date a guy who lives on Long Island sight unseen.