. . . "Fourteen people, including children, in-laws and grandchildren, sleep over.???Jill and I usually sleep in my big, king-size bed,??? Betty Conley said. ???A lot of time half the kids are in there with us.???Cancer has only deepened the meaning of these traditions.Conley was diagnosed with Stage 3 breast cancer in July 2009 and underwent a double mastectomy, 16 rounds of chemotherapy and 31 rounds o" . .