"And yes, part of the fun of romance is that they are idealistic, but it is not impossible to add realism without losing the whimsy.Example: Santa Claus was a morbidly obese man with an obsessive compulsive disorder which caused him to cackle out Ho, ho, ho! maniacally.The Romantic Santa: Santa Claus was a jolly fat fellow with twinkling eyes, rosy red cheeks, and a heart of gold.Okay, so maybe th" . . . .