. . ".At a minimum, it???s hard to see how the passage of Proposition 8 benefitted children like the six-year-old who, on the day the referendum passed, came up to his mother with tears running down his face and asked if they still were a family.4So it???s no wonder that at trial, when the court asked a lawyer for Proposition 8 proponents what harm would come to opposite sex married couples if gay and" . .