. . . " the dreams. and what if he doesnt realize or wake up before he has finished it (he says he would know). isnt this a step back from where he was?the rule here is that any step back results in the end of our marriage. i feel some sort of love for him (which is not normal), but my first priority are my kids and steps backwards towards feeding the perp side are just not on. he ows us that, especially" .