. "I think it is more along the line of: ???He looked at me.??? ???She bumped me when she walked past me.??? Actually, the more I think of it the less I think they really argue unless we are under time pressure??? dashing anywhere or rushing anything ???ups the anti?????? Getting in the car in a rush and eight kids strapped in is a nightmare worthy of immigrating to the moon??? but when there is no r" . . .