. . . "It???s about sex and about language and about the language of sex, and how we???re failed by language in writing about sex, and how we fail sex with language. ???What we need, of course, is a language which will allow us to distinguish the normal or routine fuck from the glorious, the rare, or the lousy one... but we have more names for parts of horses than we have for kinds of kisses.??? And it??" .