. . "They go, ''Wow, I want some help to make that happen.'' Usually they come to that third question and say, ''Gosh, parenting is the most important thing to me, but I am caught up doing this, that or the other thing'' or ''Gosh, I would really like to write a book.'' Usually by asking the three questions, you tap into what is missing, and a financial life planner will actually deliver that for you." . . .