. "As amberglow points out, it is a fairly common story.posted by mediareport at 4:22 PM on November 29, 2002 what is heart-rending for me is all the unknowns\" on the memorial site.posted by WolfDaddy at 4:45 PM on November 29, 2002 I had the good fortune of being able to attend the trans day of remembrance organized by my university. there was a candlelight vigil and some speeches - altogether it was" . . .