. . . "I have on going problems with my daughter, i find that when she looses everything in her room except her bed and dressers, all toys friends, things she enjoys gone..she gets to read when she wants. and i make her earn all of her things back...its taken a long time but it sinks in that what i say goes..not what she want but what she need, she is aloud...you just have to be consist with discipline." . .