. "tual or peer support other than text based has many fears for me and especially the phone as I both do not have time to think about what I am saying, process the reply but nor can I read body language.Wendy - I love that bit in the film 'The Full Monty'http://www.youtube.com/v/02weaqtbFQc&hl=enEvery time I hear that song I think of those men at the benefit office." . . .