. . . . "I have a shitty disrespectful ex who stayed friends\" with his ex-wife (if you want to call having lame, awkward, competitive conversations every couple months or so a friendship) and years after we broke up (cheating was a factor, no contact after the breakup), he truly thought we could have a jolly little chat, even tried to come in for a hug, when I ran into him out someplace." .