. "And that my comment here had a lot more to to do with my ???gut??? response to her surety that he is not cheating (if they are, indeed, living apart, it would be much more difficult for her to be certain of his activities in her absence), the feeling that her jealousy is a thing that has developed over time, and come to full flower recently, that people seem to be in a very great hurry to cohabit" . . .