. . "how therapy is a very big topic because being the OW is not fun it is not a bed of roses its traumatic and can(if given a chance) destroy lives.These other ladies are right you should get out and now the longer you stay the harder it gets.

I was once told that when I leave my MM it wll be because the pain of being with him will have surpassed the pain of being without him...Imagine what" . .