"I will describe the session which made me go \"stop this trait stuff first. *Now* I see how that was a stupid reaction on my part, but hey, experience is what you get when you do not get what you want (or something like that).Social situation of the session: we played at my home, after dinner, but the next day was a working day - we hadn't all the time we wanted and this put a bit of pressure on me," . . . .