. "Problem-solving is the most important skill to develop for success in life, and we for some reason can???t stand it if our kids have a situation that they need to ???fix.??? Let them struggle???it???s a gift. [And the third poison is Pleasure] Giving your child too much pleasure.??? At that point of the interview, a woman comes in the deli with her three young daughters and buys them all huge cook" . . .