"ng whenever wherever for three years. we had a long talk about how i have to be in a pleasant mood and i have to have eaten and i have to have a big glass of water for my body to make milk. it is still a struggle occasionally, but i remind her every day that she needs both kinds of energy, from food that we eat and from mamas milk. (i say both so that she does not feel like I am replacing nursing wit" . . . .