. . "I have had it where he verbally attacks me and calls me names under the sun which i have got used to it as i have had to protect my kids i think that is why i am like i am a stronger person for it, i don???t take anything for granted i am a kind of person who will try help others if they need the help but when one of you are an alcoholic it is harder because one of you have to keep the peace betwe" . .