. "I do not know if it was me being drawn into the 'boys will be boys' thing (which is often encouraged subtly or less subtly by other people, including parents - I am not saying he is your case, of course I can not know that!, just that I have seen it happen a lot), or we were all simply too lively, or perhaps it was just the, um, stress of living under the same roof and competing for resources, if I may" . . .