"ok, he is not all, sorry, almost forgot, and this is sorta important.Liv and CD - you both sound like me and my ex going back and forth - I could not believe it - we do not understand each other - and he deflects and I zero in and he goes off another direction and sometimes I followed and other times I tried to come back to the topic at hand. but always, always, he could not stay there. control issu" . . . .