. . . "We are not to be drill Sargent making them choose what we want nor Rescue Squads making us come rescue them from their unfortunate consequences. (If they didn't put their favorite shirt in the laundry and want to wear it-- we let THEM do an extra batch of laundry, or hand wash it, etc. --- How we work with our family is a practice for becoming like our Father in Heaven, and we need to work as it s" .