"There are some blessings attached to marriage.And he is why the average Nigeria lives on less than a $, hope with no basis and blind optimism rather than realism 3 Likes Re: Men: Do You Have to Be Financially Stable Before Marriage or Not? by slimyem: 2:21pm On May 11, 2013 This question is a no-brainer.What to do with a man who cannot provide for himself talk less a family?" . . . .