. . . . "o give him that and he enever read it, coz it is not his cup of tea.but as our sexual encounters progressed, i realized that my husband wasn't a vrigin before he marreid me like he said, or bisexual like he said he might be, he had a sadictic disorder.it showed in his personality and interactions with me and other people, and it started to come up in bed.he didn't try to force me to do anything i c" .