"ia over the female genitals, but dont like the male physique or \"soulthis word \"soul is important because it is what defines you as gay or straight in my eyes. if you are attracted to the female spirit/soul/essence, you are straight, even if the girl you are with was born with a male body. her heart and mind is a womans. if you are attracted to a male soul/spirit/essence, you are gay because you" . . . . .