. . "Is this a safe strategy in this culture?Same here and it is all good 1 Like Re: Open Communication In Marriage, A Plus Or Minus? by Nobody: 3:58pm On May 10, 2013 Olasaint: I have been married for a while, and Open communication is a rule in my house. it creates the following scenarios- I cannot have a girlfriend that will cost me more than 5000 per monthCan your wife have a boy toy that will cost he" . .