nd out about this site. the second is that i worry i would be less inclined to talk openly and honestly if you could see who i am - most especially about sex and stuff.yes i realize i have not written about sex in a while but it is 'cause I am NOT HAVING ANY.oooooo hey... if i posted a photo or two of myself, perhaps someone would actually take me up on it when i announce that I am looking for a date or s