No matter how he couches his language, it still comes down to, ???I just don???t fancy you any longer, but there???s this girl at work who makes me burst out of my pants when I see her.??? He might hope that his wife will say ???that???s great, sweetie, you should take things further so at least we know whether you actually have ED or not,??? and dispassionately I???m sure a lot of us are thinking