How to handle this-- I dont want to create a dangerous dog either! (BTW my berner shot out past us when we opened the gate b/c the house there was a huge dog standing accross the street, he charged him them just stopped and sniffed and recalled immediately when my 10year old called him, so he isnt a Killer dog yet, but I dont want him to be either-- my husband does not want our 2 acre property par