For example, I???ve long been buying most of his clothes, because it???s not the sort of thing that he thinks about; if it weren???t for me I think he???d wear the same jeans and t-shirts until they were more holes than cloth. (Metrosexual he is not.) But when I bought him a nice new (well, used from Goodwill, but new to him) pair of jeans last month, I definitely felt more pleased than in times p