November 14th, 2010 at 10:48 am plus i think women sometimes think they need to orgasm fast enough to keep the guy???s attention (as did i in my younger days). a few years ago i read how women take about five times longer on average to ???get there??? as men, i.e. about 10 minutes to their two. just an average, not a hard and fast rule. i???ve known men who barely get it out of their pants before