Good luck to all ??? there are a lot of untrustworthy people on both sides and if you detect that early in a marriage, with or without kids, you???re better getting out, not ever stopping your career, and while you have ???goodwill??? in the marriage, make sure you live in a place where your support system in the best, i.e. nearer to your family and friends, etc, ??? so that in the event he leaves