out that girl. and let it go. someone up thread said meditation. mindfulness is pretty helpful for stuff like this. you do not need to beat yourself up over being human and especially over things that have not even happened. wondering what if? in ANY direction is pointless energy. you have got better things to do.posted by sio42 at 6:46 AM on October 11, 2012 [1 favorite] How to quiet the think ab