I sympathise with you truly my mother passed away 24 th dec 2012 at 10:00 Christmas Eve morning I was in my kitchen with my family wrapping up the last of my children's presents when my grandmother phoned me I thought it was strange because my nan always rings on Xmas day to speak to my kids to wish them a merry Xmas etc but her voice was a whisper and shallow and the words that every person dread