One guy was much older than his teen girlfriend and he is still around although he is abused by the teen girlfriend in front of that child.I chose not to have sex as a young lady (I will not say child, I was out of child stage at age 12 or 13, it is insulting to say a 12 or 13 year old is a child in my opinion, I knew exactly what I was doing and the life choices I made back then) at the age of 12.