And it made me cynical towards others and untrusting of friends and other people in general. my mom's OM was a coworkers, knew she was married, but was easy to prey on because her and my dad were having probs.[This message edited by strongerdaybyday at 10:02 AM, August 26th (Monday)]Me-BW Him - WH Married 6 years, together 15 years children-3