I am in the same boat I have been on dating sites for a third of my life and have never had any interest except from gay men and women who want pen pals only,I am not gay and want a girl friend,but there does not seam to be much chance of that,I have asked out many women in my life,but they all turn me down saying I am ugly and they are not hard up etc,if there is a God out there he just does not want