so around 6 or 7 years ago my flashing started, i was about 14 or 15 at the time and my aunt (a single woman probably around 50 at the time) was living with us in my converted attic. she had to walk by my bedroom to go up to it and i wondered how i could go about flashing her. it started off with me just sort of getting changed with the door open and stuff but i was never sure if she would see me