my husbands birthday is nov 20 and his death date is dec 2, and our anniversay is dec 18......odd, some years i forget the dates and other years i remember with no thought at all......the mind is amazing where it will and will not take us......going on 17 years for me since he left, many life times ago and then again it was just yesterday and other times it feels like i am in a time warp and it never