ith them too.Now I have four little girls because out of the kindness of my heart I took on my fiances three nieces when their mom passed away unexpectedly (Ages-10yr,4yr,7mth) I took them on in May and I am dealing with the same thing all over again the way I look at it is.If they cant accept my kids then they cant accept me because my kids are a part of me whether they like it or not and that goe