I have a 10 now @ the time he was 5 and were we live is with my ex in-laws and i have three children and the 10 year old is not my ex husbands and my ex husbands sister's basically told my son that they dont like him and there not going to treat him the same so they do not respect me or him and everything he dose or says is an issue but let my youngest two say or do something and its ok .