??what if i don???t find someone? is every good guy taken? what if i???m single for years! everyone is married with kids except me.??? i know, it???s pretty silly to write it out, but that IS what i thought for a while. i???d like to think i don???t feel very pressured to have kids and get married right away, but the older you get, it???s like someone shoves those thoughts in your brain whether yo