ll have our struggles and pain. realising that tithing more, praying harder, or trying to be 'better' is not the answer is a huge part of maturing in your faith. so bravo. i know it is hard and you feel like your footing is shaken, as a good friend of mine said, 1) though the structure of my faith may have crumbled, the foundation, Jesus Christ, was where I landed; 2) there is nowhere else to turn;