While it works wonderfully today, back then, Steffens wasn't so sure.When McCauley asked her out, she said she didn't want to date a lion tamer.???He said, 'he is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard,' because I do the same thing (he does),??? Steffens said. ???So he said I wasn't going to date him, I was going to marry him.???One year later, they were married.