Really think about the most efficient use of your time, for example one of my colleagues lives a long way from work so she is been up for 3 hours before she gets to the office getting herself and 2 kids ready, getting to Nursery for 7.30am and then driving to work for an hour - for her it was more time efficient (and not much difference financially) to hire a Nanny.do not sit down to watch t.v or go