Men are stupid...ok not stupid...well not all of them are stupid...but all of them are easily turned on...which for me is a good thing...I do not have lots of time to put extra effort into getting my husband all jazzed up for some spicy love...so I think God did that for a reason....lots of women have very full days...work, kids, errands, pets, home...etc....we just do not have it in us to do a lot