At some point in everyone???s development, a parent or other trusted authority figure says some version of ???do as I say, not as I do.??? And you either: realize that yes, X is a pretty good idea, even if some (or even all) of us fall short of it most (or all) of the time; or you get hung up on the ???hypocrisy??? and decide that, come what may, you???ll never be caught saying one thing and doing